One of unreasonable thing is PL making CN to hand wash her clothing, or baby’s clothing and towels, why would they want to make CN so tiring? CN’s duty is to take well care of baby even midnight feedings and cooking balance diet meals for PL, this washing job can be done by washing machine, letting CN to have enough rest and energy to focus on baby and PL. If CN finishes her work, she could do whatever she wants or rest.
I have heard from my PL telling me that her friends who gave birth in the same week with her, they also hiring a CN, they complained about their CN spent too much time in kitchen and when baby is crying, CN didn’t rush to the baby, this sounds like the CN not fulfilling her duty, later my PL told me that actually her friend is living in landed property, baby is in first floor, nanny is in ground floor kitchen, making it a common sense, or making it to be rather rational mind, my PL told her friend and said: “Do you know the food you are eating is not a instant food, a lot of preparation needed, if she is preparing food, you as a mother staying next door to the baby, aren’t you supposed to take care of your own baby? I would rather let my CN prepare food without disturbances, how to half-cook and attend to the baby?”
Many unreasonable incidents that you couldn’t imagine, I told my PL about a colleague in another household on duty, the family didn’t even buy veggie for her to eat, saying that veggie is expensive, making my colleague’s daily meal is fried egg and rice!
How could this happened in the world now? CN is not slave, she is there in your house to help up and allowing PL to have good recovery.
Please don’t align the work of a CN to a domestic maid.
Services provided by A confinement Nanny
24 Hour Baby Care
Aunty will help to cover baby care shift through the night so you can get some well deserved rest
Confinement Food
Aunty will prepare confinement food for both you and your baby. Food for daddy can be arranged too.
Confinement Bath
Aunty will prepare confinement bathing herbs for you to wash up.
Laundry for Mom + Baby
Aunty will help do washing, handing and folding for both you and your baby. (Baby’s clothes will be handwashed).
Pro Breastfeeding
Aunty will guide you on techniques and methods to best nurse your newborn.
Confinement Herbal Tonics
Aunty will prepare and brew herbal tonics and red dates tea for your body to recover speedily.
Please don’t make your CN do house chores! Give her good food, and she will take good care for baby and you.
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